It takes a village.
I was always a believer in the idea that it takes more than just parents to raise a child, but actually having a child has lit that idea up in neon, underlined it and put flashing arrows all the way around it. We are lucky and privileged to have had visits from Abuelita Kit, Tía Laura, and Nanny and Granddad all since Peanut joined us.
Abuelita Kit (Mamie's mom) came just three days after Peanut came unshelled. She dealt with post-partum Mama, got to watch the first bath ever, went to the first pediatrician appointment and watched full screams in action with the first vaccination. She changed diapers and sat at the window for sun time. She brought down a ton of stuff including the entire stock of Costco's protein bars, some Combos, Cheerwine, baby stuff galore, and she continues to scheme on how to get North Carolina barbecue into the country. She will be the most surprised when chubbalicious Nut of the now knocks on her door in December.
Tía Laura saw a pretty sweet snoozer, but one who was definitely putting on the pounds. She did a ton of changing and holding as well as calming a hyperventilating Mama who was worried she had scratched her daugher's eye thus partially blinding her for life (the Legume is fine). She had the chance to see a little bit of Peanut's hometown, but most of the time she just hung out and shnuzzled on the sweetest and best Williams-side-of-the-family niece in existence. She will get to introduce Peanut to her kids, the nutty cousins when we visit in January.
Nanny and Granddad (Richard's parents) just left this week, and man we were sad to see them go! Granddad is an expert sleep inducer with a back of steel and arms like springs. Nanny is a Jane of all trades who did a little of everything, including taking care of Mami and Papi! They went on Peanut's first voyage (to Cartagena), lived through the ups and downs of a 5-6 week old, and caught the first real smiles being given away. We even got to spend Nanny's birthday with her. It was a treat! They are glad to have a January visit on the books, but are a little nervous about when they get to see her after that!
Now it seems real life begins and we are really on our own. So far we are making it, but dang I enjoyed my village! Thanks to all of you for taking the time, spending the money, and spreading the love to us and to the newest family nut.
(PS. We look forward to seeing GIT, Libby, Rob and Jean in December as well. You all are in for quite a treat!)
Please add to our comments written in her book that we were the first to babysit her while BOTH parents went on a date to the movie!! What an honor!!
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed holding that beautiful girl, hanging out with brand new parents, and seeing a bit of your world. Certainly looking forward to seeing the 3 of you soon!
ReplyDeleteLove it! Such great pictures! You people are loved! ;)
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